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Ranked Top 3% Globally Do you wish that you could lead your team in a way that honours and glorifies God? Are you struggling to overcome self-doubt as a leader and have a desire to be more confident in your role? Do you want the courage to deal with difficult people but don’t want to upset anyone? Well, you’re in the right place! On this podcast, I’ll teach you how to lead like Jesus, even if you’re not allowed to speak of your faith in your workplace. You’ll learn to become bold and confident as a leader, to speak up and say what God wants you to say and to finally know that you are worthy to be in your current role. Because God chose you, not because you are already a perfect leader, but because HE wants to mold you and use you to be an instrument in the kingdom of God. Hey, I’m Rika, and for the past 10 years, I’ve been in middle-management leadership roles, where I have led various teams, from big to small, and experienced my fair share of working with difficult people, having tough conversations, hiring and firing people and managing team dynamics. I thought that I could rely on worldly knowledge of leadership to get me through. I attended various leadership courses and listened to many leadership podcasts, but I was still struggling as a leader. I was feeling frustrated and to be honest, I was not enjoying my leadership role and felt like quitting more often than I probably should have! I finally realised that if I wanted to be the leader that I truly desired to be (which was a leader who wasn’t shy to speak up, a leader who honoured God with her actions and a leader who could build a cohesive team without the drama), I needed to partner with God and find a Christian leadership mentor to guide me and keep me accountable. I committed my leadership journey to God and partnered with HIM. I started working with a mentor and stepped out in faith as I did hard things every single day. And I can’t wait to share what I’ve learned with you! If you’re ready to lead your team in a way that honours God, I’m excited to be your mentor! So, grab your notebook and pen (and don’t forget that Chai Latte), and let’s unlock your God-given leadership potential! Next steps: Head to https://www.womenoffaithinleadership.com where you can: 1. Join the Free Community 2. Sign up for our weekly newsletter and 3. Find free resources ALSO, when joining the community, you’ll also receive exclusive access to fortnightly training, which will not be aired on the podcast! So, join today! Need to contact me? Email me at support@rikawhelan.com
Episodes
Monday May 06, 2024
059 | Leadership Lessons from Women in the Bible - Part 3 - Esther
Monday May 06, 2024
Monday May 06, 2024
Now it would only be befitting to end this series with one of the bravest women in the bible, and that’s Esther. I love the story of Ester.
There are 7 leadership lessons that we can learn from Esther.
Courageous Initiative - Leadership often requires confronting uncomfortable situations to effect positive change.
Strategic Timing - Effective leaders discern opportune moments and act decisively. Timing matters.
Selflessness and Sacrifice - Leadership involves sacrifice. Putting others’ needs first is a mark of true leadership.
Prayer and Fasting - Leaders should cultivate a strong spiritual foundation. Prayer and seeking God’s wisdom are essential.
Using Influence for Good - Leadership is about using our influence to make a positive impact on others and advance noble causes.
Silent Strength - Leaders don’t always need to be vocal, silent strength and discernment matter.
Faith in Providence - Leaders trust that God works behind the scenes, even when His name isn’t explicitly invoked.
Next steps:
1. Navigate to https://www.womenoffaithinleadership.com where you can:
Join the community of like-minded female Christian leaders. This is where I will be hanging out if I'm not on the podcast chatting to you all. Come share and support each other here.
Subscribe to my newsletter so you can stay up to date with all upcoming episodes and any other exclusive or special offers.
2. If you need any support, you can get in contact with me for a 1:1 coaching session. Just email me at support@rikawhelan.com
3. Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rikawhelan
Monday Apr 29, 2024
058 | Leadership Lessons from Women in the Bible - Part 2 - Deborah
Monday Apr 29, 2024
Monday Apr 29, 2024
This is part 2 of the series Leadership Lessons from Women in the bible.
Let’s now discuss a much bigger topic, something that I know you, as the listeners have spoken about often when either joining the FB group or in the group itself during discussions, and that is being a woman in a man’s world!
There was one such woman in the bible, and her name was Deborah.
There are 4 leadership lessons we can learn from her:
Trailblazing Leadership:
Deborah was the first female judge in the book of Judges, breaking barriers in a male-dominated role.
Her courage and determination led her to step into a position previously held only by men. She defied societal norms and paved the way for other women.
Guided by Faith:
Deborah had a direct connection with God. She understood that true leadership involves seeking divine guidance.
When Israel faced oppression from the Canaanites, Deborah recognised the need for action. She called upon Barak to lead the battle, demonstrating her strategic insight.
Fearless Action:
Deborah didn’t merely offer advice; she actively participated in the fight for freedom. She accompanied Barak into battle, showing her commitment to the cause.
Celebrating Victory:
After the battle, Deborah and Barak celebrated their triumph through song. Her leadership not only secured freedom for Israel but also inspired others.
Next steps:
1. Book a free 15-minute initial consultation with me: https://tidycal.com/rikawhelan/initialconsultation
2. Navigate to https://www.womenoffaithinleadership.com where you can:
Join the community of like-minded female Christian leaders. This is where I will be hanging out if I'm not on the podcast chatting to you all. Come share and support each other here.
Subscribe to my newsletter so you can stay up to date with all upcoming episodes and any other exclusive or special offers.
3. If you need any support, you can get in contact with me for a 1:1 coaching call, email me at support@rikawhelan.com
4. Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rikawhelan
I look forward to chatting with you in the next episode. Make sure you don't miss it!
Monday Apr 22, 2024
057 | Leadership Lessons from Women in the Bible - Part 1 - Ruth
Monday Apr 22, 2024
Monday Apr 22, 2024
Long gone are the days when there are only men in authority positions. Even in the bible, God used women to lead others, teach others and care for others.
In this 3-part series, I’ll discuss leadership lessons from 3 amazing women in the bible.
Part 1: Ruth
One of my absolute favourite stories in the bible is the story of Ruth and Boaz. I’ve always loved it because it’s just a nice, beautiful love story. You can go read it in the Book of Ruth in the Old Testament.
Now, although Ruth wasn’t a "leader", there is one valuable leadership lesson we can learn from her… she didn’t give up on her people. People in this context being her mother-in-law.
Let’s recap the story briefly: Naomi has two sons, and both of them married. One was married to Orpah and the other to Ruth.
Naomi’s husband and two sons died, and her two daughters-in-laws were with her. Naomi wanted to return to her homeland with her two daughters-in-laws but on the way, she said to them to return to their mother’s house so that they may remarry.
Orpah departed but Ruth decided to stay. She was determined to remain by Naomi’s side.
Human Nature
So often, as human beings, we tend to give up on people, especially if they hurt us or break up the friendship for whatever reason. It’s easy for us to give up on a friendship or loved one. I’ve been there, unfortunately.
What should we do as leaders?
However, as leaders, we need to rise above our human nature to give up on people. Sometimes people just need us to believe in them, have faith in them, encourage them and give them a little nudge (or push!). So never give up on your team, get to know them on a personal level (without crossing the boundaries), so that you know when they just need that extra bit of belief in you that they can do it!
Next steps:
1. Book a free 15-minute initial consultation with me: https://tidycal.com/rikawhelan/initialconsultation
2. Navigate to https://www.womenoffaithinleadership.com where you can:
Join the community of like-minded female Christian leaders. This is where I will be hanging out if I'm not on the podcast chatting to you all. Come share and support each other here.
Subscribe to my newsletter so you can stay up to date with all upcoming episodes and any other exclusive or special offers.
3. If you need any support, you can get in contact with me for a 1:1 coaching call, email me at support@rikawhelan.com
4. Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rikawhelan
Monday Apr 15, 2024
056 | Rerun - Is it really gossip? Gossip vs Office Chatter
Monday Apr 15, 2024
Monday Apr 15, 2024
This is our listener's 3rd favourite episode of all time! Enjoy!
Welcome to the first episode of the new Gossip Series. In this first episode, I'll be answering the question... Is it really gossip?
I've often been asked what is the difference between Office Chatter and Gossip.
Let's define each of the terms:
Office Chatter: Office chatter refers to casual and often light conversations that take place in the workplace. It includes discussions about work-related matters, general news, and even personal topics that aren't meant to be harmful or damaging. Office chatter can help build camaraderie, create a sense of belonging, and foster a positive work environment. It's typically harmless and contributes to a healthy workplace culture.
Gossip: Gossip, on the other hand, involves discussing personal or private matters about others, often without their knowledge or consent, and frequently with a negative or judgmental tone. Gossip can be damaging as it spreads unverified information, harms relationships, erodes trust and creates a toxic work environment. It often focuses on personal aspects of someone's life that have no bearing on their work performance or job responsibilities.
Distinguishing Factors between Office Chatter and Gossip:
Intent: Office chatter aims to connect, share experiences, and create a friendly atmosphere. Gossip, however, often involves spreading information with the intention of causing harm, stirring drama, or undermining someone's reputation.
Content: Office chatter encompasses a wide range of topics, including work-related matters, shared experiences, hobbies, and interests. Gossip tends to focus on personal details, rumours, judgments, and negative assessments of individuals.
Effect: Office chatter contributes positively to workplace culture by building relationships and fostering a sense of community. Gossip has a negative impact, eroding trust, creating tension, and damaging morale.
Consequences: Office chatter can strengthen bonds and improve team dynamics. Gossip can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and a decline in productivity.
Listen as I also share what you can start doing immediately, regarding gossip in your workplace.
Next steps:
1. Book a free 15-minute initial consultation with me: https://tidycal.com/rikawhelan/initialconsultation
2. Navigate to https://www.womenoffaithinleadership.com where you can:
Join the community of like-minded female Christian leaders. This is where I will be hanging out if I'm not on the podcast chatting to you all. Come share and support each other here.
Subscribe to my newsletter so you can stay up to date with all upcoming episodes and any other exclusive or special offers.
3. If you need any support, you can get in contact with me for a 1:1 coaching call, email me at support@rikawhelan.com
4. Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rikawhelan
I look forward to chatting with you in the next episode. Make sure you don't miss it!
Monday Apr 08, 2024
055 | Rerun - Dealing with Difficult People at Work
Monday Apr 08, 2024
Monday Apr 08, 2024
What should you do if you constantly have to deal with a difficult person at work?
Would you declare war and be difficult to them as well, or would you just let it go?
In this episode, I am going to give you some tips on how to deal with difficult people.
We’ve all worked with someone who is extremely difficult.
They don’t agree with anyone, they always ark up when people make new suggestions or suggest changes and they’ve gained a reputation for being difficult.
So much so that people saying “Oh I wonder what XX will say about that?”
First of all, as leaders, we have a duty of care towards the people in our team. If someone is being difficult, we should try and understand why.
Similar to your high school bully (or workplace bully), they usually are covering up their own hurt and trying to make up for it by being mean to others.
It doesn’t excuse the behaviour, it just explains it.
So when it comes to dealing with difficult people, here are a couple of tips:
Don’t take it personally, it usually isn’t you or the team, it’s usually something personal that has happened to them
Do not react to their difficult behaviour - stay calm at all times and remain respectful
Call them into your office and speak with them - lay it on the table. “I have noticed that you have been acting a bit troubled lately. I am worried about you, is there anything I can support you with? If they deny it, then give them some examples. If they say they didn’t mean it or it was taken the wrong way, then point out that their current behaviour and reaction is exactly the same and as someone whose job it is to look from the outside in, you can see that something might potentially bother them. Let them know that you are there for them and to support them and that you would appreciate it if they would be a bit more cooperative towards you and the team.
If the difficult behaviour continues, call them back in again and speak to them about examples of where their performance was affected by their behaviour and how their behaviour is starting to affect the team.
Check-in with them daily, and show them that you care. Invite them for coffee to your office for a chat and hopefully by now, you have started breaking down the barriers so that they will talk to you.
You can also suggest that if they don’t want to talk to you, they speak to someone else like HR or another line manager.
Some people with certain personalities unfortunately are just difficult and it will do you well, to not take it personally. However, you also have to protect your team and if the person’s behaviour is affecting the team, you need to do something about it.
I’m all for accountability in the workplace. Leaders need to keep their people accountable.
I hope this was helpful. Join me again on Friday as we end the week strong.
God bless.
Next steps:
1. Navigate to https://www.womenoffaithinleadership.com where you can:
Join the community of like-minded female Christian leaders. This is where I will be hanging out if I'm not on the podcast chatting to you all. Come share and support each other here.
Subscribe to my newsletter so you can stay up to date with all upcoming episodes and any other exclusive or special offers.
2. If you need any support, you can get in contact with me for a 1:1 coaching call, simply email me at support@rikawhelan.com
3. Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rikawhelan
I look forward to chatting with you in the next episode. Make sure you don't miss it!
Monday Apr 01, 2024
054 | Rerun - What is Workplace Culture and Why Should You Care About It?
Monday Apr 01, 2024
Monday Apr 01, 2024
In the next 3 weeks, I'll be resharing 3 of your favourite episodes.
In today's rerun, I'm sharing one of the very first and most favourite episodes: "What is workplace culture and why should you care about it?"
In this episode, I discuss what workplace culture 'really' is, why it is so important and why you should care about it... a lot!
Workplace culture consists of 2 things:
The relationships between people
The things that people do
1. The relationships between people
Ask yourself the following reflective questions:
What are the relationships like at your workplace?
Do people show respect to each other, or do they disrespect each other?
Do people have healthy debates or constantly engage in unhealthy conflict that has no resolve?
Do people have fixed or growth mindsets?
How do people cope with change in the organisation?
What is communication like in your workplace?
The relationships we have with one another at work affect our workplace culture. If there is a lack of respect for each other, a lack of trust, a lack of compassion and a lack of caring for each other, workplace culture will suffer. However, on the other hand, if people respect each other, trust each other, have compassion towards each other and truly care for each other, workplace culture will thrive.
2. The things that people do
What are the unwritten rules at your workplace or organisation? What are unwritten rules? Unwritten rules in the workplace, often referred to as workplace norms or informal codes of conduct, are a set of expectations and behaviours that employees follow, even though they are not explicitly documented in company policies or formal guidelines. These unwritten rules shape the work culture and influence how employees interact with each other and perform their job duties.
So, think about what the unwritten rules in your workplace are. What things do people do, that are potentially unacceptable, but because everyone does it, no one cares and there are no consequences? For example, lunch breaks. Does everyone return to work on time after their lunch break, or do they simply take their time? After all, no one cares, and their line managers never speak to them about returning late. This mindset can quickly spill over into other job tasks and therefore productivity and ultimately the company's bottom line will suffer.
In this episode, I discuss 4 steps that you can follow to commence changing workplace culture in your workplace.
Next steps:
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Monday Mar 25, 2024
Monday Mar 25, 2024
Hi amazing ladies of God!
In this episode I share a bit of my personal struggle with boundaries and why I have felt it important to take a short break from the podcast.
However... I'll be re-running 3 of your favourite episodes over the next 3 weeks, while I take a break (it's school holidays here and my hubby will have time off as well).
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Monday Mar 18, 2024
Monday Mar 18, 2024
As leaders, we have to be so mindful about our words, what we say and get involved in.
The NLT Study bible calls the following behaviour 'death-dealing':
lies
arguments
insults
slander
gossip
rumours
flattery
bragging
belittling
As leaders, we also have influence over our team and our peers. We have to be extremely mindful of what we say and be so careful not to get involved in things that can cause others to mistrust us.
I hope you enjoy today's episode.
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Monday Mar 11, 2024
051 | Is it Time to Break Free from Corporate Life with Anita Anello
Monday Mar 11, 2024
Monday Mar 11, 2024
Today, I have with me a very special guest, Anita Anello. Anita has spent many years in the corporate world and reached the top of the ladder and asked herself, "Is this it?".
Anita had more in mind for her life and with the support of her husband, they prepared for her to leave her corporate job and move into entrepreneurship.
Anita shares valuable insights on dealing with toxic workplace culture, advice from previous leaders and so much more!
You definitely want to grab your favourite beverage, a notebook and pen and sit back and listen.
Links mentioned in the episode:
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The Gap and the Gain Book - The Gap and the Gain: The High Achievers Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success : Sullivan, Dan: Amazon.com.au: Books
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https://www.therippleaffect.net/
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Monday Mar 04, 2024
Monday Mar 04, 2024
Celebrating 50 episodes! Thank you for listening!
Today I'm celebrating 50 episodes on the podcast and it wouldn't be possible without all the amazing women of faith who and listen and support me weekly.
To celebrate, I have a surprise for you in the episode, can you spot what's new?
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In today's episode, we're talking heart-to-heart about leading through tough times.
As leaders we're role models and it can be tough to lead through tough times and still be a role-model to others.
Jesus was the perfect role-model to us when he led through the toughest times of his life.
But... the beauty is... He never did it alone! He gathered the troops, and they were with him.
You are not alone in this!
Listen in as God speaks through me a message for you today.
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